Monday, February 27, 2012

Housemates

For the rest of the time i've been teaching in this place, i've been staying with more than one housemates... Met various types of people, with various personalities, behaviors and attitude...

The first housemate was AA... i have no problem with her... she was a lay back person..and we occasionally have fun together.. although both of us didn't really share the same interest, i have no problem fitting in with her..

After a few days, or maybe a week or more?? HAHAHHAa... cant really recall... another 2 housemates moved in... they were J and MA... huummmp... at first i cant really fit in with MA and J... i found it awkward with both of them... J was too straightforward, that she often made me feel unappreciated, while MA .... nothing happened between the both of us.. but it was just awkward... AA and J weren't staying long with us since they are contract workers.. after a few months, their contracts were ended..so they moved out from our house.. leaving me and MA staying together... i guessed this was the survival situation happened.. because there were just the both of us staying together, we began to fit each other and talked more frequent... things went on well until a new housemate moved in...

another girl moved into the house... let me introduced her as ES... ES was someone that MA knew through facebook, ES was a friend of MA's friend.. so,although they didnt really closely acquainted, but they have heard of each other previously... besides, ES friends were also MA friends... so, in this case, i felt totally left out..they began to talk on things which i obviously have no idea..making me felt so left out... just to tell you ES was another straightforward person.. only that her level was so much higher than J... i always have problem with people who are straightforward.. because i am not that kind of person.. i frequently felt hurt and sad because of their words.. this is because, i am not the type of person who easily share my feelings..thus this kind of people often make me offended... although at first we were completely fine.. slowly i felt deserted... i just have no idea why... i let it be...

until one day... another girl moved in.. and she was EE... my first impression of EE wasnt that good... i found her too social and wild.. but after a few week staying with her, i figured out that she wasn't like that... i think she was cute despite of her age... i mean.. she was older than me.. but maybe because of her personality... i never really feel the age gap... until one day... MA and ES moved out from the house..leaving both me and EE... i totally have no idea why both of them moved... the only thing i knew, both of them moved out at peak of awkwardness occurred in the house.. i was away when they left the house, attending a three days course.. so i didnt get any explanation from them on why they moved.. even EE asked me why, which i was totally clueless

since then, i stayed with EE for really long time... we mixed with each other well... no problem at all.. we went out and have fun together..shared happy moments together....

finally recently... both of us get 2 new housemates...

they didnt come together... one of them moved in the of mid january... she is NA... NA is just like many other girl.. i didnt find it hard to mix with her.. we may not share the same interest, but things just go on well.... she is someone who is easy going.. was quite jealous of her personality.. she is able to mingle with guys easily.. maybe because of her working environment....

and lastly a new housemate that just joined the house this week... or was it previous week? hummmp.. she is F... this one... kinda hard for me to say.. it is too early for me to judge her... but she has this ES personality.. her thing is hers.. other people things can also be hers.. which make the whole situation awkward... besides, she spent most of her time in her room..less communication will create uncomfortable atmosphere... totally dont like this at all

i hope, as time moves on.. she'll mix with us... unlike NA... although NA just stayed with me AN EE, we totally have no problem.. so far... kekekkeeee

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